Picture Recap

Since I just did a pretty text-heavy post, and have another one planned, lets throw in some pictures to break things up a bit.

Memorial Day weekend / my Birthday in Coos Bay

We headed to the ‘ol in-laws for the weekend. We had kind of off and on good weather with rain thrown in, but still managed to play outside a lot. My birthday almost always falls on Memorial Day weekend, so I get a 3 day weekend to celebrate. Yea for turning 31 (AKA, BOOO)

Thatcher’s first “real” haircut.

And by that, I mean me cutting his hair in the kitchen. Probably could use another one already. Don’t let the picture fool you, he did not look this happy the whole time.

Trip to local farm for some strawberry picking

This was actually really fun. The boys basically ate strawberries and dirt the whole time, but it was very low stress for me for whatever reason. Until a few days later when Thatcher got the most raging bacterial eye infection and then spread it to Thad, for which they both needed oral antibiotics. Other than that, super fun. We will do it again next year, and just try to rub less dirt on our faces (Thatcher, I’m talking to you).

Funny picture of the boys wearing reading glasses

My sister put together a cute box of “eye exam” stuff for Thad for Christmas, so they were playing with that. Don’t worry, I (their eye doctor) approve of them wearing readers, won’t hurt a thing. Plus, it’s funny.

Thad’s first night in a big bed

Sadly, this night ended tragically with him waking up at 4am throwing up, and continuing to throw up for the next 12 hours. We are working on re-doing both their rooms, and will possibly have it done this weekend. More pics to come.

Weekend trip to Redmond

Justin’s sister and her fiancée bought a house in Redmond last year, and we just went to go see it for the first time a few weekends ago. Thatcher had a little bit of a hard time sleeping, and it was HOT, but otherwise a fun trip. We hung out at their house, went to a river, and swam in the hotel pool of some other family members that were coincidently in town for sports stuff.

4th of July

All of my 4 siblings live in the Pacific NW with the exception of my younger brother, Seth, who lives in the LA area with his wife and their son. They usually fly up here twice a year, once in the summer, and once for the winter holidays. Whenever they are up here, we obviously try to spend as much time with them as possible since we don’t get to see them much. Cutest bunch of kids you will ever see. You’ll note that there are 3 handsome young boys all about the same age; the one with straight hair is my sister’s, the curly one is mine, the super curl one is my brother’s.

Setting off a small fireworks show in the driveway. Dad made fun of Oregon’s fireworks. To be fair, they are totally lame. Clearly, the one pictured was purchased in Washington, where they don’t care if they blow off body parts, or set their state on fire.

Making s’mores with Gpa, Thad eating his with Uncle Seth, and Thatcher is blowing on the fire….safety first, you know. Don’t be alarmed by the police car in the background, It’s my dad’s.

Getting out of the house and heading to the playground, and Ashlyn and Thad helping me make Cheesecake Stuffed Strawberries (Try ‘em, they are super simple, fast, and delish. Kid friendly and adult friendly)

And wwwhhhaaaaaaaaa? Second family picture in a 2 week time span. We are on a roll, ya’ll!

I love you, family!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST

What I walked into my bathroom and saw the other day. If you have some explanation, do tell. I am at a loss as to what is going on here. At least the seat is down.

Happy summer. Next up for us: A road trip to Tahoe to stay at Justin’s (distant) family’s cabin. Yes, that’s right, I said a 12 hour car ride with a 3 and a 1 year old. Yikes.

Moving “Up and to the Right”

This post is one that I have wanted to write for a long time. Or, at least, I have been thinking about it for a long time. I wanted to share some thoughts on what I am doing to help my kids to know Christ. Obviously, there is no right or wrong way, and if there was, my thoughts may not be on the “right” list. But after lots of thought, prayer and advice seeking, I have come up with a few things.

This whole topic started weighing on my mind a couple of months ago. Justin and I host a small group for our church at our house. We meet either weekly or every other week, depending on what’s going on, and discuss a book that we are all reading, a sermon series, etc. We have great couples in our group and we really love doing it. There are 4 couples, including us, and 6 kids ages 4 and under. The problems is: what do you do with 6 young kids while trying to have meaningful conversations with other adults. Our solution: we don’t know. Anti-climatic, I know. The solution to that question is not really the point of this post. What we TRIED to do, was shoo the kids to the boys’ bedrooms and expect them to play together happily for an hour. Not sure how we expected that to work. My own TWO kids can’t play unsupervised for more than thirty seconds before hell breaks loose and I have to go put out a fire. (Not literally…..yet). Our ridiculous expectation led to frustration on the parent’s part, and then ultimately, the realization that, DUH, we are asking way too much of them.

And, yet, I still was trying to figure out, how can we distract these kids so we can have some peace and quiet and get something out of this time together. And then it hit me. Why in the world are we trying to un-include our kids? What about my life purpose? Remember this post? You know, where I said my LIFE PURPOSE is to teach my kids to know Christ? Where does it say I should send them away while I talk to other people about Christ? That thought changed my entire mindset about how to approach things. We don’t have the perfect solution for what to do with kids during small group, but it totally changed my perspective on the direction that should head. More than that, it made me think about our lives in general, and what we are doing to teach them about Christ. How are we showing them what it means to live a life following Christ?  What does that really look like for a 3 and a 1 year old? What do you do? What do you say? So here are my thoughts, they fall into 2 general categories:

(Please note: I most definitely am not trying to tell anyone how to raise their kids. The point of this is to encourage and maybe give some ideas to others who may be thinking about this same stuff)

LEAD BY EXAMPLE:

Probably the biggest factor here is that I need to be spiritually on track. This one is interesting because in some ways, I waver back and forth between thinking that as the mom, I have a lot of say in how my kids think, are raised, and how they turn out. But, on the same token, they are ultimately in the hands of God, in His control, not mine. Keeping that big picture in mind is important. So while my job is to fulfill my purpose, the ultimate responsibility does not lie on my shoulders. I need to do all the things I am supposed to, but God is in control.

• Spending daily time with God is, for me, invaluable. Reading, praying, verse memorzation, etc. I like to do it in the morning before the kids are up. It helps me to start my day in the right mindset and keep things in perspective. In my internet searchings on this whole topic, I came across this post on how to create a successful quiet time which I thought had a lot of helpful hints.
• Pray for them. Probably a no brainer, but I sometimes feel at a loss for WHAT to pray for. This is a cool list that has helped give me some structure and broadness for how I pray for them. 
• There are probably a gazillion Bible verses that pertain to being a mother, but for some reason, this one has really struck a chord with me:

“Using a dull ax requires great strength, so sharpen the blade. That’s the value of wisdom, it helps you succeed”. –Ecclesiastes 10:10

That is maybe a bit obscure in how it relates to parenting, but in my mind, it means BE EFFECTIVE, sharpen yourself, and you will be a more effective parent. I want to be a wise, successful parent. So, my goal is to always work on sharpening myself.

• Be humble, be honest, grant yourself some grace when you screw up. I have to remind myself of that on a daily basis.

TEACH:

There are TONS of tools that you can use to help teach them the message of Christ. Do you NEED these? Of course not. But, I felt like I needed something tangible in my hands to use. Things to help me know HOW to say things at the level of a toddler.

• Kid Bibles: Thad has A Child’s First Bible, which is good, but I also got The Jesus Storybook Bible based on some recommendations from friends. I really like it, it tells the bible in short stories that have a beginning and end, unlike the Child’s First Bible, which is continuous. I just find it easier to have a start and stop point when reading to kids. For some tips and thoughts on reading the Bible (in any form) to kids, read this article.
• Devotionals: I had never really thought of this as an option for little kids but was inspired by this post about Gathering for Devotions as a Family. I LOVE this idea. I really needed some help in relaying Biblical info to them at their level, and a devotional has helped me do just that. I read lots of reviews on Amazon and ended up getting The One Year Devotions for Preschoolers and Five-Minute Devotions for Children. They are both really good, the One Year Devotions has short, simple stories that apply some Biblical principle, with a short memory verse and a rhyming prayer. If your kids love animals, the 5 Minute one is AWESOME. There are only about 25 devotions, but each one talks about a different kind of animal and describes how a certain trait of that animal is God-given and applies to us also. The illustrations are cool and it is super kid friendly. Thad loves it. We read the one year one in the morning after breakfast, and I read the animal one to Thad when we put him to bed.
• Prayer: Not only do I want to pray FOR them, I want to pray WITH them. This blog post has some great tips on Teaching Your Children to Pray. Want some ideas for kid style prayers at the dinner table? Here is a good list (from this blog post). She also has some good ideas for teaching kids The Lord’s Prayer, which our church is big on.
• Music: I have yet to meet a kid who doesn’t love music. What a great way to teach them about God! I use You Tube a lot at home, but haven’t really found a great list of kid-style worship songs, so we have stuck to Wee Sing Bible Songs, which has literally 62 songs on it and includes a book with the lyrics and hand motions for each song. Pretty much all you need (or can handle for that matter….kid songs get stuck in your head rreeeeaal quick).

That’s about as far as I have gotten. Big picture wise, I want to teach them to follow THEIR purposes (again, from The Purpose Driven Life, the 5 purposes are Worship, Ministry, Mission, Fellowship and Discipleship). So with that as our big goal, we will work on moving in that direction over time.

Some other great ideas, tips and resources:

Bible Lessons for Toddlers

Top 5 Bible Verses for Toddlers to Memorize

Truth for Tots

35 Service Projects for Kids

Anyway, just some thoughts to share. This has been a new effort in the last month or so, and I am still working on how it looks in our daily lives. It’s a starting point, and I just want to keep them moving in the right direction. “Up and to the right”, as our pastor would say. I want to raise good kids. But more than that, I want to raise kids with a good heart…a heart for God.

Tuesday Update:

Today I will be ignoring the fact that I have neglected to post anything for the last month, ignoring semi-important things like Justin’s birthday, my birthday, Memorial Day, etc. Are adult birthdays really that important after you have passed the 30 mark anyway? Probably not. Instead, I will give you a list of randoms that have no relevance.

1. Spiders. For approximately the last week, the same piece of brown thread tangle has scared me no less than 8 times. Looked darn close to a spider. I have been extra wary since my sister told me that she saw a huge spider on the ceiling of the family room and did not kill it. If you are ever in my house and see a spider, it is your DUTY to kill it. It’s like that law about reporting suspected child abuse to the proper authorities….it’s your obligation as a human being. Thankfully, 2 things happened yesterday. One, the nasty big spider was found, having relocated itself to Thad’s room. (Yes, I choose to believe that it was the same spider and that there is only one spider in my whole house at any given time. Don’t burst my bubble). And two, I got smart and threw away the brown string clump. Unfortunately (speaking of burst bubbles), Justin tried to tell me that vacuuming up a spider probably does not kill it. Is this true???

2. Face ladders. Last night, I was laying on the floor of Thatcher’s room, reading Winnie the Pooh to Thad. Thatcher came over and climbed on my face to try and get up into the crib. My child literally stood on my face. Not caring a bit that I was laying there, face smashed, saying, “Thatcher, get off my face”. How’s that for respect. Punk.

3. Baby gut. I hear it is a good sign when your abs are on fire 1 minute into a 15 minute ab workout. I think it goes without saying that since having 2 kids, my abs are no longer what I would consider an asset. They may not even be present. Hard to say. Nonetheless, with a week in Tahoe looming ahead of me at the end of July, it seems prudent to try and get this business under control. I have a fiery hatred for Comcast (why are you so expensive? Why are you the ONLY option with the PAC-12 channel?) but they do have some good workouts on their OnDemand. And by good, I mean tortuous to my flab.

4. Cujo. Last night I headed out for a run. (Do you HEAR how in shape I am? Goodness). Before you get too impressed, I have a loop that I have been attempting that is no more than a mile and a half. Hard core. Justin always is apprehensive when I go and don’t take my keys (with mace) and my cell phone. But, it is difficult to run carrying those items, and I need all the help I can get. So, I go with nothing and am sure I will be fine. Which means that I was by no means prepared when 4 people walking 2 mammoth dogs were crossing the street ahead of me and one of the dogs almost knocked it’s leash holder over, lunging at me, teeth bared and saliva flying. I grew up with police trained German Shepards, and usually dogs don’t scare me, but this one really threw me for a loop. It easily weighed 100 pounds, and was clearly the one in control. It was snapping it’s teeth literally probably a foot (MAYBE 2 feet) away from my face. For the rest of my run, I proceeded to picture myself laying on the side of the road, blood gushing from my body. It made me think about what the best thing to do should be if confronted by a dog, by yourself, defenseless. I don’t really have an answer, it’s a pretty vulnerable position. My best thought would be to climb up on the roof of a car. I don’t know. It’s not ideal. When I got home and told Justin, he gave me the very wise recommendation that I should take a self-defense class to protect myself from spiders and dogs. Full of good advice, that one.

5. Baking Skilz. I have been wanting to make a sourdough starter for a while. I love home made bread, and typically make some kind of bread product on a weekly basis. (Gift idea: bread maker. Anyone? Anyone?). A week ago, I started a sourdough starter, and used it for the first time yesterday to make some sourdough rolls. Success. Also as I part of dinner, I made some roasted broccoli. I had the broccoli on a pan, in the oven at 425 for 20 minutes. Also sitting on the pan was the paring knife that I used to cut up the broccoli. (You know, the knife that I probably use more than any other knife, the one from our expensive knife set, the one with the plastic handle that does in fact melt when left in the 425 degree oven. FAIL.

Rock Painting

My current craft obsession is rock painting. Maybe ‘obsession’ is a bit strong. But, I did spend about an hour and a half painting rocks yesterday. So….call it what you will. Granted, Thad was painting with me and Thatcher was napping. So, I wasn’t completely ignoring my parenting duties.

My inspiration came from a few sources on pinterest:

The Hungry Caterpillar

A Martha Stewart list of rock crafts

Pet Monster Rocks

Obviously, lots of ideas out there. Thad and I test drove the whole rock painting thing by painting a few rocks like strawberries. We just used acrylic paint, then I sprayed them with a couple coats of shellac.

Some of them turned out really cute, and some turned out looking like twisted gargoyle strawberries. I won’t say whose were whose…but they went out to live with the real strawberry plants in the backyard. They have been watered a couple of times and even rained on, and still look fine, so apparently the shellac makes them waterproof.

I also plan on painting others for the garden, like these here to serve as little markers.

But, the ones I really couldn’t get off my mind were the hungry caterpillar rocks. And so, naptime project was created yesterday.

Not to pat myself on the back (much), but I think they look even cooler than the lady I was copying. Truer to the way Eric Carle does his illustrations at least.

Thad got bored before I was quite finished, so I will show them to him today. I am sure he will think they are cool. And if not, I will force him to play with them anyway. :)

P.S. Don’t ask me what my bathrooms look like right now. I had more important things to do yesterday. Like painting rocks to look like caterpillars.

Spiders….my fav

Once I start, I can’t stop. Random project from last month: yarn spider web. Free and easy. Spider made out of pipe-cleaners.

We even caught a cute little fly

Spring Holidays

I haven’t posted for a while, and I have been avoiding posting because I feel like I am too behind to catch up. I had stuff I wanted to post for Valentine’s day that never got done….little late for that. So, this may turn into a 2 month recap, depending on when the peeps wake up for the day.

What the heck, here is a fun Valentine’s craft we did. (Do you see how wishy-washy I am?)

The idea came from here, and it needs minimal explanation: pieces of chopped up crayon between 2 pieces of waxed paper. The instructions said to grate the crayons with a cheese grater, but I found it much easier to just chop them with a knife. We used way more crayon pieces than we needed to, a little goes a long way. Another tip: melted crayon does not come out of fabric. Fun fact.

And there you go. Our Valentines day. Bam. Moving on.

Easter!

Since we have had small kids for a big chunk of our adult lives, we don’t have a lot of holiday decorations, besides Christmas. I guess the reason being that I don’t like a lot of clutter, and decorations sitting places that can be reached by small hands tend to be messed with, destroyed, broken, and otherwise create a bother for me. But, I decided to let go of some of that selfishness and get a couple Easter decorations from St. Vinnies.

Cute? Eh….maybe. If carrot trees with eggs hanging from it is your thing, sure. Gaudy and weird, yes, probably. Nonetheless, Thad LOVED them, and for 3 bucks a piece, you can’t go wrong. Or at least not THAT wrong. Of course, Thatcher just wanted to eat the small pieces, so they were put up on the desk most of the time. But, it still felt oddly satisfying to have some decorations up to signify a pretty important holiday. Do rabbit trains have any significance for the true meaning of Easter? NO, I know this, just let me be happy about it anyway.

We (I) also did a Easter craft that I will attempt again next year using proper materials. (Side note, when you type a capitol I between parenthesis, it automatically turns into a lightbulb…..why??? How weird. Side side note, I’m not sure if that should be spelled capitol or capital….sorry). So, anyway, I wanted to make these cute eggs from this blog:

She used embroidery floss, I used yarn. You were supposed to use water balloons, I only had regular balloons, which were much less egg-shaped when blown up small. I also didn’t have much Modge Podge, so I could only make a couple, and they weren’t as stiff as they could have been. But I think the idea is really cute, I will make some better ones next year.

We spent the actual holiday weekend at my parent’s house, with one of my brothers (soon to be dad, woohoo!) and one of my sisters and her kids. My parents live in the country and have been foraging a trail down to their creek so they could take the kids for hikes. My mom also had the idea to do an egg hunt along the trail.

Day one: the preparatory hike

Day two: the hunt!

Super fun.

Family picture:

I guess I also need to mention that the boys had another birthday celebration while we were there, since Saturday of Easter weekend was Thad’s actual birthday. Ashlyn’s bday is right in the middle of the boys, as is my nephew Ezra’s (who couldn’t be there that weekend, miss you Ezra!)

And let’s make sure to represent my sweet Thatcher

Clearly it was a BUSY weekend. Hopefully next year we will have a bigger gap between our March birthdays and Easter, it was a bit overwhelming to do so much in a 2 day weekend. Okay, well I am still a month behind, but I better quit here. It is almost 8:00 and the boys are both still asleep. Probably should go make sure they are alive…